Just finished reading my weblog.. it's very funny and at the same time, I just realized I have not been writing for the longest time. Is it because of facebook or i no longer have things to write about, is my life became too boring? um um... there has beena  lot of things going one for the past months.. I "rushed" into a "relaionship" and came out from it.. i love, i still love but totally in a different ways in another degree. To love is not equal to hold in your hand forever, sometimes, let go is also a good choice..

Finding the right person is not an easy task.... everybody has a list of "requirement"during the searching process, but to love a person only need a spark, a word, a smile... everything became so simple, you don't need to think too much... you might just fall in love, don't be afraid .. just let go of your list ...

I just had a very delighted conversation on msn with my friend, he ask if i have time and go to dinner with my friends and family and I am very busy with my own schedule.. as I told him I am trying my best, then he told me he own story..he has been married for almost 7 years with his wife and they both very busy.  He said he tries to go home or go out and have dinner with his wife almost every day for the past years, his wife on the other hand will tried her best to cook a meal. I was amazed as they lived in the US and traveling from office to home take almost an hour, then i told him,  when I am busy, i will just stay at the office and work until i was too tired to work. He then told me his view about The Balance of Life. he is trying to balance his life, the real balance of life is not related to how much time you spend with your beloved one, your friends and family, it is the quality, he said during the meal he shared with his wife..he melts.. he said that hour and a half is the most comfortable time he has everyday, he said when he sees his wife, his trouble melts away..the trouble maybe go away for an hour or so but he described this as a buffer.. a buffer for his busy life... he taught me .. haha.. he said the way to keep a man is not trying to control his life but to build a comfit zone for him... wow.. i said.. that's difficult.. He said.. well..no... according to his wife, he said... when you do it with love and and care and just a bit of effort... wow...that's all i can say...and he said.. "you should try.. it's not difficult".

Wow .....